Grounded optimism. Practical spirituality.

Learn to live soulfully, intentionally and confidently, while escaping the trap of pushing, trying and angsting.

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Replenish Membership

Real women. Safe conversations. Lasting change.

A community of women like you who take their formation and growth seriously. You are tired of your old ways and you are looking for fresh ways to engage. Join us for this online gathering of women of influence.

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Group Coaching

Break free from your old patterns and open to the possibilities of lasting change. Engage this deep dive into the undercurrent of your life in these online small group intensives. Choose from two groups: Managing Inner Narratives or Embracing Change.

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Spiritual Formation Coaching & Spiritual Direction

Whether you desire coaching or direction, I provide women with spiritual hospitality, sacred listening, powerful questions and safe space to explore your relationship with God and others. With the heart of a spiritual director and the tools of a coach, I’ll help you notice, discern and respond your way forward.

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Gem truly has a gift in fostering a safe place that nurtures inner most feelings and insights to be shared among women who have never met. So grateful!

Gayle Sahlin
Project Manager

My participation in group coaching with Gem has been a true blessing.  Gem has a gentle and wise way of encouraging the deeper exploration of the soul as we move closer to God. The willing, faithful and beautiful women I have met in this process bring an authentic breadth to this experience.

Terri Carter
Adult Discipleship Coordinator, Solana Beach Presbyterian Church

Gem is the perfect guide for weary souls seeking refreshment with the Lord. Her welcoming, cheerful, and gentle presence helps us to put our guards down and feel safe. She also has a wealth of experience to share from her own journey with God that helps newbies or experienced seekers discern the movements of the Spirit.

Kate Kim
Payroll Coordinator

Speaking & Retreat Facilitating

When I speak for your group or facilitate a retreat I enjoy serving as a guide, with the intention of helping people encounter God in their everyday lives. Always seeking transformation over mere information, I share from my heart and my own relationship with God. I love when some reflection time and interactive sharing is built into the sessions for a fuller formational experience. Your community will be refreshed, inspired and encouraged as they interact and participate.

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What Does Your Soul Love? book

What Does Your Soul Love?

In these pages Gem and Alan Fadling outline eight key questions that offer deep insight into how we experience soul change. These questions open the door to spiritual transformation. They help us unpack where we are stuck, where we are in pain, where we are afraid, and much more. They also reveal the path to joy and to the heart of God. Spiritual inventories and exercises will guide you, along with stories from Gem and Alan's lives and their ministry together through Unhurried Living. 

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