Grounded optimism. Practical spirituality.

I help women live intentional and expansive lives at the intersection of spiritual leadership and soul care. Let's do this together!

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Replenish Membership

Real women. Safe conversations. Lasting change.

A community of women like you who take their formation and growth seriously. You are looking for fresh ways to engage, so join us for this online gathering.

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Group Coaching

Break free from your old patterns and open to the possibilities of lasting change. Engage this deep dive into the undercurrent of your life in these online small group intensives. Choose from two groups: Soul Care Based Leadership or Embracing Change.

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Spiritual Formation Coaching

If you are a woman in leadership (or in a position of influence) I provide spiritual hospitality, sacred listening, powerful questions and safe space for you to explore your relationship with God and others. With the heart of a spiritual director and the tools of a coach, I’ll help you live and lead from the overflow of a full soul.

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Gem is gifted at holding space and gently guiding you to new awareness about yourself and your life. Every session I leave feeling more connected to God and myself. Her coaching and spiritual guidance has been life changing. I feel changed on the deepest level because of her support.

Morgan Northway
Coach & Mentor

My participation in group coaching with Gem has been a true blessing.  Gem has a gentle and wise way of encouraging the deeper exploration of the soul as we move closer to God. The willing, faithful and beautiful women I have met in this process bring an authentic breadth to this experience.

Terri Carter
Adult Discipleship Coordinator

Gem is the perfect guide for weary souls seeking refreshment with the Lord. Her welcoming, cheerful, and gentle presence helps us to put our guards down and feel safe. She also has a wealth of experience to share from her own journey with God that helps newbies or experienced seekers discern the movements of the Spirit.

Kate Kim
Spiritual Director

Speaking & Retreat Facilitating

When I speak for your group or facilitate a retreat I enjoy serving as a guide, with the intention of helping people encounter God in their everyday lives. Always seeking transformation over mere information, I share from my heart and my own relationship with God. I love when some reflection time and interactive sharing is built into the sessions for a fuller formational experience. Your community will be refreshed, inspired and encouraged as they interact and participate.

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What Does Your Soul Love? book

What Does Your Soul Love?

In these pages Gem and Alan Fadling outline eight key questions that offer deep insight into how we experience soul change. These questions open the door to spiritual transformation. They help us unpack where we are stuck, where we are in pain, where we are afraid, and much more. They also reveal the path to joy and to the heart of God. Spiritual inventories and exercises will guide you, along with stories from Gem and Alan's lives and their ministry together through Unhurried Living. 

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Gem Fadling

Gem Fadling, CLC, is a founding partner of Unhurried Living, Inc., a non-profit that trains people to rest deep, live fuller and lead better. She is a Certified Life Coach and a trained Spiritual Director who coaches women at the intersection of spiritual leadership and soul care. Gem is the host of the I Can Do That! Podcast and is the author of What Does Your Soul Love? Eight Questions That Reveal God's Work in You (IVP 2019) and the forthcoming book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads (IVP 2022).

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