Grounded optimism. Practical spirituality.

I help women live intentional and expansive lives at the intersection of spiritual leadership and soul care. Let's do this together!

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Real connection.

Ongoing Support.

Lasting Change.


Coaching, training and community to help you live a more sustainably paced and productive life.

Confidently engage a life of transformation with the ongoing support of like-hearted women.

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Move at the pace of grace.
Grow at the pace of transformation.

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Soul Care Groups

DEEP LISTENING, POWERFUL QUESTIONS & SACRED SPACE. This is what you’ll encounter in online Soul Care Groups.

Each group is comprised of FOUR WOMEN who hold space for one another under the experienced guidance of Gem Fadling (via Zoom). 

IT IS IN COMMUNITY THAT WE ARE SEEN AND HEARD. This can lead to even deeper wholeness.

With the heart of a spiritual director and the tools of a coach, Gem will help you explore your relationship with God and others as you learn to live and lead from the overflow of a full soul.

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Gem is gifted at holding space and gently guiding you to new awareness about yourself and your life. Every session I leave feeling more connected to God and myself. Her coaching and spiritual guidance has been life changing. I feel changed on the deepest level because of her support.

Morgan Northway
Coach & Mentor

My participation in group coaching with Gem has been a true blessing.  Gem has a gentle and wise way of encouraging the deeper exploration of the soul as we move closer to God. The willing, faithful and beautiful women I have met in this process bring an authentic breadth to this experience.

Terri Carter
Adult Discipleship Coordinator

Gem is the perfect guide for weary souls seeking refreshment with the Lord. Her welcoming, cheerful, and gentle presence helps us to put our guards down and feel safe. She also has a wealth of experience to share from her own journey with God that helps newbies or experienced seekers discern the movements of the Spirit.

Kate Kim
Spiritual Director

Speaking & Retreat Facilitating

When I speak for your group or facilitate a retreat I enjoy serving as a guide, with the intention of helping people encounter God in their everyday lives. Always seeking transformation over mere information, I share from my heart and my own relationship with God. I love when some reflection time and interactive sharing is built into the sessions for a fuller formational experience. Your community will be refreshed, inspired and encouraged as they interact and participate.

Book Gem
What Does Your Soul Love? book

Hold that Thought

Gem Fadling helps us identify the competing voices and shows how they hinder our personal transformation.

Drawing on years of spiritual direction and leadership at Unhurried Living, she shares her wisdom of how we make sense of inner voices and settle down enough to find our true voice.

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What Does Your Soul Love? book

What Does Your Soul Love?

In these pages Gem and Alan Fadling outline eight key questions that offer deep insight into how we experience soul change. These questions open the door to spiritual transformation. They help us unpack where we are stuck, where we are in pain, where we are afraid, and much more. They also reveal the path to joy and to the heart of God. Spiritual inventories and exercises will guide you, along with stories from Gem and Alan's lives and their ministry together through Unhurried Living. 

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Gem Fadling

Gem Fadling, CLC, is a founding partner of Unhurried Living, Inc., a non-profit that trains people to rest deeper, live fuller and lead better. She is a Certified Life Coach and a trained Spiritual Director who coaches people at the intersection of spiritual leadership and soul care.

Gem is the co-host of the Unhurried Living Podcast as well as the co-author of What Does Your Soul Love? Eight Questions That Reveal God's Work in You, and author of Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads. Connect with Gem on Instagram and LinkedIn.

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