8 Paths to Transformation

Learn to engage your questions and live into the answers.

Join us for this 3-month online group coaching experience!

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Check out the dates for the early 2023 group below.

Space is limited to 8 women.

Do you ever feel...

  • Unable to stay on the path of change?
  • Tired of searching for illusive answers?
  • Alone on your journey?
  • Sick of skimming the surface of your life?
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My participation in group coaching with Gem has been a true blessing.  Gem has a gentle and wise way of encouraging the deeper exploration of the soul as we move closer to God. The willing, faithful and beautiful women I have met in this process bring an authentic breadth to this experience.

Terri Carter
Adult Discipleship Coordinator, Solana Beach Presbyterian Church

The group coaching sessions with Gem and the other ladies has been an oasis for the soul. I feel stronger, more confident, connected to the family of God, and more adventurous. Simply knowing I’m not alone on this journey has spurred me onward. It has been a deep privilege knowing every one of these ladies.

Beverly Hudson
Spiritual Mentor

The group coaching experience was very helpful! Gem brought a new way to process our thoughts that was relatable, doable and effective. It was especially nice to process through this learning with a small group of like-minded and kind women. Although we started out as strangers, with Gem’s guidance and example, we quickly connected with each other. The many handouts that were offered have provided a thorough and ready resource that I’m keeping handy.

Liz Brumfield
Life Coach

"It was good to share life with wonderful women noticing, discerning and responding to our thoughts in community. We shared similar challenges and desires for transformation. Gem guided us with love, grace and humor. My tool chest has been packed to overflowing with soul-nurturing resources I can use daily."

Jane Couperus
Financial Counselor

Join us for our early 2023 session!

Engage the beautiful dynamic of being connected to women like you who want to dig in and grow.

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  • Learn to cooperate with the dynamics of change.
  • Harness desire as an engine for growth.
  • Identify your resistance points.
  • Learn to let go of that over which you have no control.
  • Open to the freedom of Divine invitation.
  • Take a deep dive into desire, resistance, vulnerability, truth, pain, fear, control and joy as paths to transformation.
  • Enjoy the input of women who want to engage life from the inside out.

Let's do this together!

Join us for our next session. Space is limited to 8 women.

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You'll Receive

  • In-depth unpacking of Gem & Alan's important book, What Does Your Soul Love?
  • Personal 20-minute pre- and post- individual consultations with Gem via Zoom.
  • Six 90-minute online sessions. (Two meetings per month in group training and coaching.)
  • Private online group chat.


Thursdays at 4:00pm (Pacific Time) via Zoom. The next group begins February 9, 2023.

February 9, 23

March 9, 23

April 6, 13


A $50 non-refundable deposit will reserve your spot. Cost is $99 per session for six sessions. (Billed in three monthly installments).

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Gem Fadling, Your Coach

Gem Fadling, CLC, is a founding partner of Unhurried Living, Inc., a non-profit that trains people to rest deeper, live fuller and lead better. She is a Certified Life Coach and a trained Spiritual Director who coaches women at the intersection of spiritual leadership and soul care. Gem is the host of the I Can Do That! Podcast as well as the co-author of What Does Your Soul Love? Eight Questions That Reveal God's Work in You, and author of Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads.

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